Some things are better left unspoken, not in twitter, not even in blog, not even to the person directly.

So i just talk it over with my husband, whoelse i mean, he's my true best listener this whole time.

And today same old thing just happened again, i was this close to saying directly my objection to the person..thank God i didn't and chose to talk the problem with hubby. He was agreeing my points to some extent, but chose not to be confrontative and try to see the other side of the story. Well, we always do that. I mean, when he's in the same situation, i normally become 'that' balancer.

Today's thing got me thinking real hard on being fair with someone else. It's definetely not a simple thing to do. And behind fair, there is also 'ikhlas'. Something harder than fair. When i think i have done the fair thing, and not getting equally from whom i expected to, 'ikhlas' is something i must exercise. Starting from now. I mean now. Poor hubby who's getting more and more complains from his 'itung2an' wife T__T